Why???
Posted: Sun Feb 28, 2021 11:21 pm
Why would my brother adopt the crabs from me and then decide not to follow the advice I sent him, only to get rid of them last year because they were “stinking” too bad? He seemed really excited about adopting them from me but then, once I gave them to him, he lost interest in them after having them a couple of months. All I got last year was a picture to prove to me they were “happy” in the set up. I was also told “one walks around while the other one sits in a corner and that he didn’t want to talk about it.”
I’m beginning to feel guilty about giving them to someone who didn’t care what the requirements were. I was told he gave them to a “couple of kids”. So now I have no idea if they’re dead or alive, or even if the people he gave them to are caring for them properly. I did not want to ask him to join the Hermit Crab Association for fear that he would not listen to you guys either. I suspect he thought they were too much work and didn’t want to add the extra sand to make it “easier” to see them and eventually he got bored watching them because all they did was “sit there.”
I wish people would quit thinking hermit crabs are easy to care for and don’t require a lot of space and a lot of substrate. Now, I would like to advocate against the sale of hermit crabs in pet stores because this is what happens when they end up in the pet trade. They are sold to people who do not bother to do the research and think all they need is a twenty gallon tank and an inch of sand.
I’m beginning to feel guilty about giving them to someone who didn’t care what the requirements were. I was told he gave them to a “couple of kids”. So now I have no idea if they’re dead or alive, or even if the people he gave them to are caring for them properly. I did not want to ask him to join the Hermit Crab Association for fear that he would not listen to you guys either. I suspect he thought they were too much work and didn’t want to add the extra sand to make it “easier” to see them and eventually he got bored watching them because all they did was “sit there.”
I wish people would quit thinking hermit crabs are easy to care for and don’t require a lot of space and a lot of substrate. Now, I would like to advocate against the sale of hermit crabs in pet stores because this is what happens when they end up in the pet trade. They are sold to people who do not bother to do the research and think all they need is a twenty gallon tank and an inch of sand.