HCA: Hermit Crab Association

my cousin cassie has bridal shower set for today from 2-4 at the masonic lodge, I have had the invite for weeks. my sister in law diann throws a bday party in vite for her grandson at me thurs, says it's sunday same day, 1 pm at park [ across from this place where the bridal shower is } well my thing sorry i had this invite for the bridal shower weeks ago,i am going to it. i will get the kid something run it over and go back. well then my sis in law calls everyone says change time now it's at 3. kids dad has to work, the she has the nerve to call my cousin who has the the masonic lodge rented from 2-4 and asked when do you think you will be done and can let them know she was wanting to have coltons b day party there! like hey hurry up your party will ya so we can be in there by 3.. cassie called me and asked me when his party was i said 3 why? she told me well are you sure? cause she is asking me if she can have the place and what time we will be done? I told cassie she is not to hurry around for diann, she knows this kid has a b day every yr and she could of done it next weekend for that matter and he is going to be 4? like he will know , to tell the truth he is short some in the brains dept! I'm sorry to say that about my own, but the kid is like duh? all this goes much deeper than just hey we are not playing hurry up for her, she thinks people owe her, should feel sorry for her, well it's over with, we are done being made the fools of in her game. her husband died 2 yrs ago and all their lives they have played the victims of we are broke, poor us, can't pay our bills, and we have all played into and bailed them out. now she has done it again after jim died her sister caught her up, paid all her bills, my husband put in new battery in her car, she has got numerous free fix ups on her car and parts and gas and no thanks you just oh great now i can go to warsaw to see my grandkid, she takes her check and buys crap. she filed bankrupt, giving all her stuff away then turns around and buys brand new? not so broke is she? all the work that was done on the car, she pulled in the drive w a dif car one day saying she was going to trade. darryl saw red! so ya what she did yesterday i found was extremely rude.. even my husband is at the end of his rope with his own sister! he even said she was rude and we don't agree on much lol!

i would go off on her, and i under stand how you feel i just had one of my friends from mid school ask my "brother" for money to move back to tx. she moved to fl with her bf and 2 kids..... my brother has no money and just found out his mother is very sick. i went off on her.i would hold and intervention for her, and explane how you feel and go from there tell her that ur not going to help her any more till she shows she is at least trying to do for her own....

oh she knows how we all feel, when she showed up with the other car in the drive saying she wanted to trade after my husband just put a 100$ battery in there, things were said that got back to her then she said oh I was just kidding and I was bored! haha ya right.. at this b day party found out she paid half for a new wood play set! she will never learn or save but we are done { me and my husband } if other family members want to bail her out..more power to them. my aunts said don't ya take care of family? why didn't ya all pitch in and buy her house for her so it didn't go back and she didn't go bankrupt?? I looked at them & said why should we? Why should we work for what we have and save and have to give it all to her when she takes what she has and blows it all?? kind of gave them an eye opening new look on things cause they have been bailing their family members out of holes to that do the same thing! Not us! my kids work their buttocks off for what they have and do not ask for stuff unless they really need it or if we see they really need something we will ask if they need something and then if they say yes we will help them out. I never asked my parents for money either. just wasn't brought up that way, ya don't have the money, ya don't get it