aslansgirl89 wrote:I stay kind of hands off, as I will get them out occasionally to let them explore a bucket with a climbing surface while I shower and I will occasionally let my female walk on my hands but not my male. My female is generally more chill when it comes to handling whereas the male freaks out. I have also noted that they show stress by flicking their side antennaes backwards so if I notice that behavior I will immediately put them back in the enclosure. Has anyone else ever noticed the antenna thing or is it just me?
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Absolutely correct! They flick antennae back when they’re mad or agitated or whatever the crab equivalent is! I can note this in the Es more so bc they don’t have shells to pull into, so everything stays out in the open the entire time. But when they’re threatened.... you get an eyeless crab.
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I have better shots but it always cracks me up. (He loosened up like 2 seconds later...) Meet Big E, my largest one. Really original name I know. The e is for my hubby actually!
*edited to add that he was coming out of ISO; that is not his full time crabitat behind him!
As far as the guys go- I think we all know when our crabs are threatened/scared and back off immediately, and that is a good thing. However, I feel like in my interacting with them that they have all benefitted from some handling, as they aren’t absolutely terrified when someone walks in the room. Conditioned is exactly the word I know. We can all adjust to almost anything- and so can many crabs. Even the shy ones. I feel like.... i feel like going ahead and encouraging your crabs to come out and visit you, even when they don’t, reinforced (to them) that we are not a threat or dangerous. *that is an opinion and by no means based on fact or long years of knowledge, just that I’ve had a couple of shy crabs turn it around and be if not totally fine, tolerant of being watched and just aren’t bothered anymore.
I know they won’t ever turn into my social butterfly like Princess. She almost never even startles! She’s so used to being around people- the previous owner had her for 5-6 years too, and all the crabs from him are friendly and unthreatened and healthy. (I believe there were 9 total crabs and all are this way, to various degrees. It took them just a few days to be totally comfortable with whatever, but that’s normal! He (previous owner) said he handled them about as often as I do from what I understand, so I do believe it helps them- even in transition from home to hone which is hard enough on the poor guys (and gals!) I believe it lessens a portion of the stress they experience going from one owner to another bc they at least know that people aren’t really a threat. Idk. It’s a shot in the dark kinda bc there isn’t any science to back it up. Hmmm. I wonder if someone here is talented and smart enough to take a poll and consolidate, to see who lands where in the handling crabs scale! Not it! I was thinking how cool it would be if there was a person with a group of crab owners, who kept track of this data from home to home. And to ALSO keep records of who has friendly crabs vs not as much, and then to see how they do in transition; whether or not their comfort with one human transfers universally or on a crab to crab basis... idk maybe I’m crazy and overthinking it all, but that would be even more informative in general. IMO...
Sorry so long! Didn’t mean to.
Dave the Wondercrab~Pat~Maggie~ Billy~Pop~Corn~Ten~Sam~MissTeri~Tim~Gene~ Barry~Mr S~Princess + 5 Es + Mr EnDoh =my crabby clan!