I think this argument should stop all together. Sure, this is a hermit crab care forum, but it's also something else. We're all weird, yes? According to those around us, we have unusual or uninteresting hobbies. We may enthuse to those around us, but who cares? I always get that uncaring, "Uh huh." from my friends and family. This forum is also for support. We have one very big thing in common, and we all need each other's support. This particular argument is making us disrespect each other. Think about it. I don't mean to single out Suebee and Jennie, but I have to for a moment. Do you think Suebee and Jennie will be able to civilly hold a conversation now? Will they be able to post in each other's threads? If Jennie has an Aussie come up from molting that she was worried about, will you see Suebee congratulate her and tell her the crab looks great, or vice versa? Probably not, because they'll remember the words exchanged in this thread and suddenly become uncomfortable. That is, if they even decide to read each other's threads. To keep things drama-free, they both may opt to ignore each other.
Different things work for different people. As human beings, we form our own opinions, and there's nothing anyone can do to change them. That's why this argument shouldn't continue. It won't prove anything. It'll only separate the members of this forum into 'cliques' of those that believe in the myth, and those that don't. Worst case scenario, the underlying "you're a bad crabber" tone may push some people to leave the forum and/or give up crabbing all together. That's not what we're here for. I feel the need to play the mommy role here and insist that everyone says that they agree to disagree. I want those of us with differing opinions to still be able to talk to one another. Maybe even consider each other friends. Now, everybody, apologize and make up!
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