The Dangers of Moving too Fast.

[Crabber85]

@jenok, thanks and yea it is she cried herself to sleep last night and then he decided to call her around 1 in the morning he said his phone battery was dead and that he was still on the road.His plan now that he can't legally move here with the kids is to keep them in Arkansas and start building a big house since he is skilled at carpentry and in a year or so he wants to move my mother up there with him unless she files for divorce in two months in which case she wont be moving.I found out last night that she gave almost all of my dads life insurance money to her new husband to help him buy a new truck and trailer so we have no money to fall back on so keeping our house is going to be very difficult she's either going to loose it by moving with him or she's going to loose it by divorcing him and I told her that I would not be moving with her she would go by herself because I just can't up and abandon my entire family.My brother and his wife are trying for babies and I want to be here for my first niece or nephew I've never been a uncle before and I want to have that experience which wont happen if I move half way across the country.At this point she's willing to throw away her entire nest egg and her family for one man because she says she's in love with him she can't possibly know that because she has the emotional maturity of a two year old.He has offered to let me move in with them when she goes if she goes and I just can't see myself doing it where he lives they don't have power for most of the winter and rely solely on a wood stove for heat I can't take my hermitcrabs into that kind of conditions they will quickly die and on top of that he wont let me bring my little in-door dog with me because he doesn't allow dogs in the house that for me was enough to kill any notion of moving.